How many times do you have to have sex to have a child?
In many marriages, things do not go as planned. Some people do not want to have children but get pregnant without knowing it. Again, many spend more years than children but do not see the face of Sonamuni.
Age, diet, and lifestyle depend a lot on having a child. Many get married at an older age. They cannot be the parents of the expected child.
Some patients came to me,
who has been married for only one month? They were brought by the mother-in-law. They complained that the daughter-in-law could not be the mother of the child.
I say then, the marriage has been only a month. Why are you so restless for the child now? Then they answered me, that pregnancy does not take even a month. One day is enough. In fact, this idea is wrong.
What we recommend is that you, husband and wife, stay together for a whole year. But it is seen that the husband lives in Chittagong and the wife lives in Dhaka. Husband comes one day a week. In this case, how to have a child?
My advice is that if you want to have children, you have to stay together for a whole year. Meet at least three to four times a week.
If the child still does not come from the womb, then contact the doctor. But if that happens, the husband has gone abroad within a month of the marriage. If the girl comes at the age of one year and says why I am not a mother, then how will it be?
In the context of our country, we now ask girls to get married after 20 and boys after 22. In the case of girls after marriage, if the first child is between the ages of 30 and 32, it is a safe pregnancy.
There is no age limit on when men will become fathers. A man has the ability to give birth even in old age. However, in the case of girls, it is better to have the first child at the age of 30. Remember, being a mother after the age of 35 is risky.
(Author: Dr. Kazi Faiza Akter, MBBS, FCPS, MCPS. Consultant, Impulse Hospital. And Assistant Professor, Gynecologist, Obstetrician, and Surgeon.)